
I had the idea for my website come to me out of the blue, and it sounded like such a fun thing to try. I was newly retired, my wife and I love going on road trips, and I love my region of Northeast Ohio. So, why not make a site about where we go and what we do when we get there… what’s not to love about that? It took a very long time to come up with a great name that could also be used as a web adress. Everything good was taken and I was at a loss. One day, when I least expected it, it popped into my mind: “Northeast Ohio Journeys” I was on the road when it came to me, and the first thing I did was check with GoDaddy if the domains were available. They were, and I felt as if I hit the jackpot! That was three years ago this December, I think, and I had no idea what a rough journey it would be.
It’s not so bad now, but early on, it definitely wasn’t a pleasant drive. It was a struggle. The hardest part was first understanding what I really wanted to do online, then visualizing a structure and a flow which supported that vision within the confines of the hosting platform. It seemed simple enough to describe: Give people travel tips to places I know, document all my journeys to new places, then showcase my photography a little by illustrating the site. I’d never built anything online before so everything was new to me. I found a platform which seemed worthy and followed all their guidelines, watched all their videos, I scribbbled notes in a fresh spiral notebook, along with whatever questions I need to ask.
When I felt ready, I began my work, and instantly felt the web builder’s equivalent to classic Writer’s Block. When I got a few things done, I felt dismayed because the site seemed functionally and aesthetically compromised. Certain functions wouldn’t work because they required custom CSS code, and I couldn’t have the site be as colorful as I envisioned because it worke on ‘themes’ that allowed very little flexibility. Building the site took nearly a year because I started from a blank page rather than from pre-made templates (because I wanted to stand out with my own style) and there were many start-overs. In the end, the site worked but just barely, and it lacked nearly all the beauty I’d originally envisioned. Being new at the website building game, I thought it was the best I could hope without paying for a professional web designer which was priced over my budget. I wasn’t happy, but having no other choice, I took the ball and ran with it.
Just after I officially launched my brand-new site, I went to an annual weekend event in my city as a photographer and shot photos for two solid days. I passed out business cards with my web address to any of the attendees who inquired where the photos would appear. When I got home, eager to upload the photos, I found my website scrambled and out of format for no apparent reason, and suddenly, with desperate problems that needed fixed in a hurry, the live online help was nonexistent. In frustration, I canceled my contract because I felt the site was unstable and unreliable. For a little while, I thought maybe my website idea was unrealistic and impractical. I felt that way for about a week, until I decided to look at it again.
In frustration, I began the search for a more reliable platform. This time, I chose WordPress which is what I ultimately stayed with. WordPress instantly impressed me with its flexiblity. The ‘Happiness Engineers’ I emailed were very supportive and assured me I could build essentially anything I wanted, and that was all I needed to hear. I chose a pricing plan, then started again with all the guidelines and videos, feeling that I was back to Square One with my site.
Still, none of their pre-made templates really appealed to me, so once again, I decided to build my own site from a blank page. I knew this would be taking the very long road, but I had definite ideas how my site should look and function. Life is a journey, right? That’s what I had to keep reminding myself.
I quickly discovered that the price for increased capability was a much steeper learning curve. Additionally, I had to shuck the mindset of the previous platform and start fresh with how WordPress worked. At the same time, I wanted to rethink my site since I was no longer creatively confined. This took an embarrassing amount of time, and 18 months after having the initial idea to make a website, I felt as if I was right back at Square One. It was hard to tell my friends that yes, I was still working on “that website.” Other things came into play as well, which I’ll tell you about…
If your’re reading this words, you may well be a friend I just haven’t met yet, and I’m happy to go with that. Friends tell each other what’s going on, right? In that case, to keep this story complete, I have to tell you that I have health issues I’m working on that have and are still dogging the progress of my website. I have major problems sleeping at night and I probably haven’t had a restful night’s sleep in at least eight years, and probably more. It makes life kind of rough sometimes. It’s very tough to build and write a website when 5 minutes after I sit down, I can’t keep myself from falling asleep in my chair (and yet, I can never sleep through the night.) On top of that, there was also a recent Prostate Cancer diagnosis and treatment, which was a radical robotic prostatectomy surgery, and the ripple effects of that — which also exacerbate my problems sleeping (naturally, my luck) — may now prove to be a permanent part of my life. My prognosis, cancer-wise, is that I have every reason to expect I’ll be writing this blog for a long time, but I wanted you all to know why I’m now in my third year of building a site which should’ve only taken a few months. I never want to be thought of as lazy. It’s just that life is what happens when you’re busy building websites, to twist a phrase. Now you know me a little more, and I’m glad that you do!
I’ve tested my patience with this website every step of the way, and so many times I thought it was kaput. Somehow, I always convinced myself that my blog / website was a cool idea, and somehow, I was always able to keep chipping away at it. I’m glad I did, because eventually, things began to fall into place. I got the gist of how WordPress worked and now putting the finishing touches on the site is actually fun instead of nerve wracking! The thought of actually using the site instead of constantly building it all the time really excites me!
One final thing, at the risk of being even more wordy — I’d giving my blog the freedom to veer off subject in favor of anything that seems interesting in the moment or in the day. We’ll see how all that goes. I admit I’m nervous to go off-script. I’m age 64 and I’ve never been a blog writer before. I’m sure this blog will evolve as practicality and needs dictate. I hope I write in such a way that’s both fun and interesting.
All my friends would tell you that I’m wordy as hell, and I know that’s because I enjoy being friends with everyone I meet! With a fresh cup of coffee at my desk, I’m usually very conversational. One thing I need to remember, however, is that not everyone wants to read book-length blog posts. It will be an ongoing challenge to write brief posts to my blog. I’ll do my best to strike a balance!
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